Forgive yourself for not having foreseen, protected, or responded more effectively during the trauma.
Read MoreWhile extremely distressing, flashbacks are actually memories. Registering what is a memory, and what is happening now, is essential.
Read MoreYou can help your brain register that you survived — you are here — to find more stability and presence in your daily life.
Read MoreIn trauma recovery, being mindful of your personal gauge will inform you what’s helpful, what is not, what soothes, what activates, what feels good, what is uncomfortable. Listening to your gauge is essential in deciding what’s the best for your recovery.
Read MoreAs a clinical social worker and therapist for over 30 years and having myself been a caregiver for over 10 years, I have observed that caregiver stress is the single most underreported source of stress for people ranging from 45 until their 80’s. While caregiving can also be a source of blessing and provide the feeling that you are doing the “right thing” for your elderly loved ones, it is tinged with a multitude of other emotions. To your friends and family, you may not want to openly express these emotions and feelings. A trained therapist, an expert in these matters, is needed.
Read MoreMicki Lavin-Pell, is a marriage and family therapist of 15+ years, married to Gaby Pell for nearly 18 years +4 kids. She specializes in helping couples navigate challenges at different stages of their lives and deal with attachment issues that often plague relationships using Emotionally Focused Couples therapy. She co-hosts a podcast featured on www.Jewishcoffeehouse.com, called Real Relationships and can be found on her website www.mickilavinpell.co.il
Read MoreThe holiday season has ended, the parties and festivities subsided, and we come back to…
Read MoreYour body is not all of who you are, but it is a constant. You are in relationship with your body always.
Read MoreAs we approach the holiday season and celebrations are upon us we can feel very…
Read MoreBingeing is an issue of physiological needs and emotional nourishment. If we attend to these, we can find peace with food, our bodies, and our minds.
Read MoreA short summary of my service with Isra AID in Mexico 2017 where I went as a psychotherapist in order to help survivors and educators to deal with grief, loss, and trauma. Using many of the same therapeutic tools I use in my private practice we were able to bring victims to where they felt able to deal with the calamity that visited upon them and start rebuilding themselves and their lives again.
Read MoreGrowing up, I remember people saying, “I’m so depressed.” What made them so depressed? Various…
Read MoreWe have an innate ability to adapt to new conditions. This ability enables us to…
Read MoreWhen we hear the term “Separation Anxiety,” we often think of young children off to pre-school, crying because they don’t want their parents to leave. But Separation Anxiety can come any time your child leaves the nest — especially at college age. And it’s not just limited to the child — parents can also experience Separation Anxiety when their child leaves them.
Read MoreThe half-full glass is the antidote to the half-empty one.
Read MorePeople often ask me, “What is art therapy and how does it work?” Art therapy…
Read MoreAs the baby gains enough safety and security via his attachment systems with the significant people in his life, he is able to identify and then befriend the familiar within the strange.
Read MoreWe need our ‘signal’ anxiety, because otherwise, we’d be more vulnerable to danger.
Read MoreA poem written by a woman in therapy where she describes her psychological victory over the person who was responsible for much of her trauma.
Read MoreWorry! Ways to Manage Worry Instead of it Managing You
Part Three
Strategies to Help you Manage your Worrying
I am glad you are back again to read the final part of my blog Worry! Ways to Manage Worry Instead of it Managing You. In part three of my blog I will give you some specific strategies to help you manage your worrying.
Here are some specific strategies and tools that can help you avoid toxic worry. Let’s get to it shall we!
Hallowell’s Strategies of Managing Worry