David Fried
Verified
Sex Addiction Therapist
MSW
500-700 NIS
N/A
Sliding Scale | Free Consultation | Student Discount
I'm an addictions specialist in Jerusalem, and I offer counseling and therapeutic services to those who have concerns about their pornography use or sexual behavior in the Charedi world.
I am a licensed social worker and CSAT-candidate practicing in Jerusalem, specializing in the treatment of addiction and compulsive behaviors. I provide confidential, culturally sensitive counseling for a wide range of behavioral and substance-based addictions, including pornography use, compulsive sexual behavior, alcohol and drug use, and other patterns that feel out of control or damaging.
I work extensively with English-speaking, Yiddish-speaking, and religious communities, including the Haredi community, offering therapy that is respectful, discreet, and aligned with cultural and religious values. My approach is evidence-based, non-judgmental, and practical, helping clients address shame, secrecy, emotional regulation, and long-standing behavioral patterns. Familiar with and supportive of the 12-step recovery model
I support adults, students, and professionals seeking clarity, structure, and sustainable change—whether for substance use, behavioral addictions, or co-occurring challenges. I offer a safe, private space to understand what’s happening and take meaningful steps forward.
* CSAT stands for Clinical Sex Addiction Therapist, and is provided by IITAP which was founded by Dr. Patrick J. Carnes
My approach is based on the principles of care and honesty while being nuanced to each situation. All my work is approached from a trauma-informed perspective while being sensitive to Torah values. My approach to treatment is rooted in empathy, compassion, and the belief that everyone has the capacity for change, given their willingness to face their demons and shadows.
Pornography Addiction
Sex Addiction
Alcohol Abuse
Behavioral Addiction
Drug Addiction
Compulsive Masturbation
Students (Bachurim)
As a therapist, my role is to support individuals in gaining clarity and understanding around patterns of problematic or unhealthy sexual behaviors. By fostering a grounded awareness of the underlying issues, I guide clients in exploring appropriate therapeutic interventions and provide continued support as they implement these strategies toward lasting change.
MSW
Wurzweiler School of Social Work
2024
2
48388
CASAC 350 - OASAS - 2024
CSAT-Candidate - IITAP - 2024
Online Therapy
Addictions
Alcohol Abuse
Drug Abuse
Sexual Issues
Sex, Love & Pornography addiction
Anxiety / Panic
Codependency
Depression
Eating Disorders
Self-Harm / Suicide
Sex Addiction
Adults
Couples
Men
English
Yiddish
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on how one's thoughts, feelings and behaviors are connected and can be changed. It is based on the idea that how we think (cognition) and how we feel (emotion) can influence how we behave. CBT helps people identify and challenge distorted thinking and replace it with more balanced thinking, leading to improved mood and behavior. ‘Homework’, usually containing practical writing exercises, is often completed by the client between sessions to reinforce the therapy. Examples of tools that practitioners often use are journaling, challenging beliefs, and mindfulness.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a type of cognitive-behavioral therapy developed by Marsha Linehan to help people learn to better manage and cope with emotions and stress. It focuses on developing skills and strategies to help regulate emotions, improve relationships and communication, and reduce self-destructive behaviors. Through DBT, people learn to identify and modify unhealthy thoughts and behaviors, while also learning to accept and validate their own feelings. DBT teaches skills to help individuals become aware of and accept and regulate their emotions, tolerate distress, and improve interpersonal relationships.
Emotion-Focused TherapyEmotion-focused therapy (EFT) is a type of psychotherapy that is based on the idea that emotions play a key role in a person’s mental health. EFT focuses on helping people to identify, accept, and manage their emotions in a healthy and productive way. The goal of EFT is to help people identify and express their emotions, understand how those emotions impact their behavior, and learn how to manage their emotions in a way that is adaptive and healthy. EFT is a research-based approach to psychotherapy that has been found to be effective in helping people manage a variety of mental health conditions. It has been used successfully in the treatment of individuals, couples, and families, as well as with groups. EFT is particularly beneficial for people who struggle with emotional regulation, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues.
Person-Centered Therapy (Rogerian Therapy)Person-centered therapy, or Rogerian therapy, was developed by Carl Rogers in the 1940’s. It is a form of talk therapy that emphasizes the importance of providing psychological safety, unconditional positive regard, and empathic understanding to clients. This type of therapy is based on the belief that individuals have an innate capacity for self-actualization and self-understanding and that the therapist's role is to provide a supportive environment in which this process can take place. Through the use of active listening, open-ended questions, and non-judgmental reflection, the therapist helps the client to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in a safe and accepting environment. By doing so, clients are able to gain insight into their issues, develop a greater understanding of themselves, and work towards personal growth.
Psychodynamic TherapyPsychodynamic therapy is a form of therapy that focuses on the unconscious mind and how it affects behavior. It works to help people understand and work through past experiences and feelings that may be causing difficulties in the present. This type of therapy encourages individuals to explore their emotions, relationships, and behaviors in order to gain insight into their current difficulties. It can help individuals better understand themselves and their motivations, and gain insight into how past events have impacted their current lives. People tend to develop defense mechanisms when faced with challenges in life. Defense mechanisms may keep painful feelings, memories, and experiences in the unconscious. A few common defense mechanisms include: denial, repression, and rationalization. Psychodynamic therapists encourage people to speak freely about their emotions, desires, and fears. Being open may help uncover vulnerable feelings that have been pushed out of conscious awareness. According to psychodynamic theory, behavior is influenced by unconscious thought. Once painful feelings are brought forth and processed, the defense mechanisms are no longer needed and a person in treatment can start changing unhelpful patterns when coping with life’s challenges.
Systems Theory / TherapySystems therapy is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on understanding how people's behavior is affected by their relationships with others. This form of therapy is based on the idea that the individual is embedded within a larger system, such as a family unit or work environment, and that changes to that system can cause changes in an individual's behavior. Systems therapy emphasizes the importance of understanding how these systems interact and how they can be changed to improve the individual's mental health. The therapist works to identify patterns of behavior in the system, identify areas of conflict or stress, and help the individuals develop strategies to make changes within the system that will lead to healthier outcomes.
Individual Therapy
Consultation
Couples Therapy