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Psychotherapist, MA
Telehealth Available
Melissa Magilner
Credentials
Type of Therapist:
Psychotherapist
Primary Degree(s):
MA
Finances
Average Cost Per Session:
350-500 NIS
Insurance:
N/A
Discounts Available:
Student Discount
Office
  • Online
  • Throughout Israel
Telehealth Available
Office
  • Online
  • Throughout Israel

Melissa Magilner Verified Verified

Credentials
Type of Therapist:

Psychotherapist

Primary Degree(s):

MA

Finances
Average Cost Per Session:

350-500 NIS

Insurance:

N/A

Discounts Available:

Student Discount

ABOUT THE THERAPIST

I grew up in London UK and worked in the NHS and private sector for many years - recognised by BUPA, AXA PPC, Vitality, Alliance & WPF to provide treatment to their clients.  I have also worked in the corporate world supervising delivery of treatment to employees on a nationwide basis and trauma debriefing to those caught up in difficult events - such as bank staff or members of the air traffic control service.  I have worked with couples and individuals although now focus on working solely with individuals who may be having relationship problems amongst other things.  I am also a provider of supervision to other therapists. 

 

My Approach to Helping:

I am practiced in a variety of different methods and models of therapy and can offer general counselling as well as more specifically targeted evidence-based models such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance & Committment  Therapy (ACT).  These models are aimed at helping people understand how we might get caught up in vicious cycles that  inadvertently create obstacles to our happiness and wellbeing.  We might find ourselves stuck in fear or feelings of sadness and in a bid to solve the problem - become more and more entangled in our distress; we might end up ruminating for long periods of time or avoiding situations that scare us - which limits opportunities to build greater confidence and break-through our self-limiting beliefs. We may be prone to intrusive thoughts or panic states or find it hard to fully engage in the world around us in the kind of ways we really want to. These issues may impact on our work or personal lives and relationships, leaving us feeling disheartened and exhausted. 

My work is about helping my clients become curious about what may be happening for them and together find ways towards finding new strategies and fresh perspectives that help them to become less consumed and compromised by fear, anxiety, stress, anger and worry.  To enjoy a more enhanced quality of life with improved relationships and sense of connection and compassion towards themselves and/or others where this is relevant. 

Specific Issues I'm Skilled at Helping With:

Anxiety - all types;  relationship concerns; work-related issues; bereavement;  depression - mild to moderate; stress management;  transition/stage of life issues, low self-esteem, perfectionism, fear of failure & other presentations. 

My Role as a Therapist:

I see my role as a therapist as helping my clients become their own best therapists.  By the end of treatment, I would hope to see in what they are telling me, a renewed ability to live life on their own terms and according to their own values;  I would like to see them feeling less stuck and more freed up despite any episodes of low mood, anxiety, fear or insecurity.  They would be better able to accept these feelings as part of our universal human condition but with a trust and confidence in their own ability to manage them more smoothly when they do show up.  

Additional Information About my Practice:

I only offer treatment remotely via zoom  - which offers a flexible nationwide reach - or for those who would prefer to type their thoughts and feelings and discuss things without the pressure of face-to-face  - I provide a digital typing platform via Microsoft Teams. This method is particularly useful for quick typers and those who would like a written record of their sessions.  

Video sessions are 50 mins in length and Typed sessions 60 mins in length. 

QUALIFICATIONS

Degree
Education
Year of Graduation

MA

Tavistock Centre & University of East London.

1998


Degree
MA

Education
Tavistock Centre & University of East London.

Year of Graduation
1998
Years in Practice

25

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ADDITIONAL CREDENTIALS

BABCP Accredited CBT Therapist - #111129

Post Graduate Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy - Royal Holloway, University of London - 2012

NHS High Intensity Psychotherapist & Supervisor as part of the IAPT scheme (Improving Access to Psychological Therapies) Accredited by the British Association of Behavioural & Cognitive Psychotherapies

DISTANCE COUNSELING

Telephone Counseling, Online Therapy

PRIMARY SPECIALTIES

Anxiety / Panic

Grief

Self-Esteem

Stress Management

Trauma / Post Traumatic Stress Disorder PTSD

ADDITIONAL SPECIALTIES

Adjustments

Couples / Relationship / Marriage Counseling

Depression

Divorce / Custody

Family Issues

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Phobias

Postpartum Depression

CLIENT FOCUS

Population

Adults
Men
Women
LGBTQ

Languages Spoken

English

TREATMENT APPROACH

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a form of psychotherapy that encourages individuals to accept their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment and to use them as tools to help them to make changes in their lives that are consistent with their values. It is based on the idea that by changing the way we think about our inner experiences, we can reduce emotional distress and increase our sense of well-being.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a type of psychotherapy that focuses on how one's thoughts, feelings and behaviors are connected and can be changed. It is based on the idea that how we think (cognition) and how we feel (emotion) can influence how we behave. CBT helps people identify and challenge distorted thinking and replace it with more balanced thinking, leading to improved mood and behavior. ‘Homework’, usually containing practical writing exercises, is often completed by the client between sessions to reinforce the therapy. Examples of tools that practitioners often use are journaling, challenging beliefs, and mindfulness.

Cognitive Processing TherapyCognitive Processing Therapy is used to treat trauma and PTSD. During therapy, clients identify and understand their beliefs about their responses to their trauma. Inspecting their beliefs often leads clients to understand their emotions and thoughts in relation to the trauma. When the client is ready, practitioners give them tools to challenge their thoughts of the trauma as well as provide homework to solidify what they learned in sessions. In the later stages of therapy, practitioners teach clients how belief systems (about safety, self-esteem, trust, intimate relationships, control, and power) can change after trauma.

Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT)Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) is an integrative psychological approach that focuses on building compassion for oneself and others. It combines elements of cognitive behavioral therapy, evolutionary psychology, philosophy, and Eastern contemplative traditions. CFT is based on the concept that compassion is a fundamental human emotion that can be cultivated to promote psychological well-being. The goal of CFT is to help individuals understand and relate to their emotions in a compassionate and non-judgmental way. It encourages clients to develop a sense of self-compassion and understanding, and to use it to create healthier ways of living. CFT also emphasizes developing a compassionate relationship with others, and can help foster greater acceptance and understanding. The primary therapeutic technique of CFT is compassionate mind training (CMT). Some CMT tools that clients may participate in are appreciation exercises, mindfulness, and compassion-focused imagery exercises. These exercises promote compassionate motivation, sympathy, sensitivity, and distress tolerance within clients.

Psychodynamic TherapyPsychodynamic therapy is a form of therapy that focuses on the unconscious mind and how it affects behavior. It works to help people understand and work through past experiences and feelings that may be causing difficulties in the present. This type of therapy encourages individuals to explore their emotions, relationships, and behaviors in order to gain insight into their current difficulties. It can help individuals better understand themselves and their motivations, and gain insight into how past events have impacted their current lives. People tend to develop defense mechanisms when faced with challenges in life. Defense mechanisms may keep painful feelings, memories, and experiences in the unconscious. A few common defense mechanisms include: denial, repression, and rationalization. Psychodynamic therapists encourage people to speak freely about their emotions, desires, and fears. Being open may help uncover vulnerable feelings that have been pushed out of conscious awareness. According to psychodynamic theory, behavior is influenced by unconscious thought. Once painful feelings are brought forth and processed, the defense mechanisms are no longer needed and a person in treatment can start changing unhelpful patterns when coping with life’s challenges.

Relational PsychotherapyRelational psychotherapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on a person’s relationships with others and the dynamics between them. It emphasizes the importance of the therapeutic relationship between the client and the therapist, and it explores the meaning and purpose of relationships in the client’s life. Relational psychotherapy seeks to understand how the client’s past relationships shape their current experiences and how the client interacts with others. The goal is to help the person develop healthier relationships and better communication skills so they can become more emotionally connected to others.

Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) is an evidence-based practice used to help children, adolescents and their parents who have experienced a single or multiple traumatic events. This type of therapy combines cognitive and behavioral strategies to help people process their traumatic experiences, manage their distress, develop coping skills, and restore their sense of safety and well-being. TF-CBT focuses on education and skill-building, creating an environment of safety and trust, and using therapeutic activities to help people understand their responses and control their symptoms. Children are shown how perceptions may be distorted and are given the tools to redesign those perceptions. TF-CBT is a skills-based model, and it requires the child and parent to practice its components in order to be optimally effective. Parents and children are commonly asked to practice skills at home.

Integrative Psychotherapy

SERVICES OFFERED

Individual Therapy
Consultation