Gavriel Tornek Verified
Couples and Family Therapist
MFT
350-500 NIS
N/A
Sliding Scale | Free Consultation
Therapy Issues
Relationships are mirrors reflecting our inner emotional health. Are you in a relationship but feel something is missing? These feelings often indicate deeper issues to address. Personal connection is a fundamental principle of life that past traumas can interfere with, limiting your ability to connect deeply and meaningfully in your relationships.
Trauma in Relationships
Often, one or both partners in a relationship have experienced things that can interfere with healthy, happy, intimate relationships. People learn how to relate to others based on past experiences. These past experiences usually influence romantic, parental, peer, and business relationships. The closer the relationship, the stronger the influence. One reason is that social filters require immense energy and will inevitably deteriorate with increased exposure. Additionally, people behave unintentionally reactively in stressful situations. Close, intimate relationships can be highly stressful, even painful, and feel unsafe, especially when expectations go unfulfilled.
Nature of the Work
Couples and Trauma-focused Psychotherapy can reveal the obstacles to your healthy, meaningful relationships and help bring them to the next level you have been hoping for. If you are spiritually inclined, I would happily accommodate you with my spiritually inspired Jewish mindfulness background and education. You can enjoy a healthy relationship when you feel safe, accepted, and understood.
Rebuild Trust, Strengthen Connection, and Learn to Co-create Lasting Love.
I invite you to schedule a FREE consultation, typically around ten minutes (though it may be a bit longer), to understand your unique situation and see if working together can be a good match. The consultation can be held together or individually with one or both of you. These brief sessions are available over the phone or via Zoom, making it easy and convenient for you to begin your journey to a healthier relationship and a happier you.
Contact me today to schedule your free consultation and move toward a safer, happier, more fulfilling connection.
MFT
Touro University
2018
6
NLP Coach Certification - 2011
Family Systems Psychotherapist - The Family Institute - 2020
Trauma - The Family Institute - 2020
Telephone Counseling, Online Therapy
Couples / Relationship / Marriage Counseling
Self-Esteem
Sexual Abuse / Rape
Trauma / Post Traumatic Stress Disorder PTSD
Self-Worth
Abuse
Anger Management
Anxiety / Panic
Codependency
Depression
Family Issues
Grief
Life Transitions
Parenting Issues / Training
Self-Actualization
Adults
Couples
Families
Men
Women
Young Adults
Hebrew
English
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a type of cognitive-behavioral therapy developed by Marsha Linehan to help people learn to better manage and cope with emotions and stress. It focuses on developing skills and strategies to help regulate emotions, improve relationships and communication, and reduce self-destructive behaviors. Through DBT, people learn to identify and modify unhealthy thoughts and behaviors, while also learning to accept and validate their own feelings. DBT teaches skills to help individuals become aware of and accept and regulate their emotions, tolerate distress, and improve interpersonal relationships.
Family Systems TherapyFamily Systems Therapy is an approach to psychotherapy that emphasizes the importance of understanding how the family functions as a whole, and how individual family members interact and affect one another. It focuses on how family dynamics, such as communication patterns, roles, and power dynamics, shape behavior, and how changing these dynamics can lead to positive change. Family Systems Therapy is a collaborative approach, where the therapist works with the family as a whole to identify and address areas of conflict and distress.
Guided ImageryGuided imagery is a form of visualization used for relaxation and healing. It uses the power of the imagination to create positive changes in a person's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It is also used to reduce stress and anxiety, cope with physical and emotional pain, increase motivation, confidence, and self-esteem, and to improve focus and concentration. During a guided imagery session, the practitioner will guide the client through a series of visualizations, using words and descriptions to help them create mental images in their mind. These visualizations can take many forms, such as a comforting place from the past or the client’s future goals.
Internal Family Systems (IFS)Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an evidence-based psychotherapy that uses the metaphor of an internal family of parts to help people gain awareness of how different parts of themselves can interact in healthy and unhealthy ways. IFS encourages people to become curious about their different parts, with the goal of helping them gain access to their true Self or core. Through this process, people can learn to recognize and care for the different parts of themselves, as well as develop compassionate understanding for the origins of their parts. A key principle of IFS is that each part within the person has its own positive intention and is trying to protect the person in some way. By understanding the positive intention of each part, the practitioner and client can work together to help the parts feel heard and understood, and to find more adaptive ways of meeting their needs. IFS has been found to be an effective treatment for a variety of mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues.
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) is a form of therapy that combines cognitive behavioral therapy with mindfulness practices. It is based on the idea that our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations can affect our mental health. MBCT helps individuals become aware of their thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations in order to gain insight and control over them. MBCT helps clients learn how to recognize their sense of being and see themselves as separate from their thoughts and moods. This separation can free the client from thought patterns in which the repeated negative messages may be dominating the client’s focus. After developing an awareness of the separation between thoughts, emotions, and the self, people in treatment may find that while the self and the emotions may exist simultaneously, they do not have to exist within the same dimension. The healing can take place when one learns how to interject positive thoughts into negative moods and thereby create a shift in mood.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)NLP is an approach to communication, personal development, and psychotherapy that focuses on understanding how people think, communicate and interact. It was developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the 1970s. NLP looks at how people use language, their body language and other non-verbal communication to understand their inner experiences. It uses techniques such as modeling, reframing, and anchoring to help people change their behavior and beliefs. Its goal is to help people understand how they think and take control of their own behavior and thoughts. NLP is based on the belief that the way we think affects how we feel and how we act. It points out that each person operates within their own subjective reality rather than from a place of objectivity. Proponents of NLP believe everyone’s perception of the world is distorted, limited, and unique. A therapist who practices NLP explores how a person in treatment perceives their reality and the effect this perception may have on that person’s thoughts and behavior. The therapist can then help them find and strengthen the skills that serve them best and assist them in developing new ways to replace ones that have shown to be unproductive or harmful.
Somatic Experiencing (SE)Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other physical and psychological stresses. It is based on the idea that the body is a powerful source of healing and that unresolved trauma can be resolved through the process of bringing awareness and attention to the physical sensations of the body. By gradually and gently guiding individuals through the sensations associated with their traumatic experience, SE can help to restore balance and well-being more quickly and effectively than traditional psychotherapy. SE utilizes the body’s natural ability to regulate and heal itself and supports individuals in developing more resilience and self-regulation. Somatic Experiencing aims to help people move past the place where they might be “stuck” in processing a traumatic event. SE is often used to treat symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues.
Mindfulness, Somatic Work
Individual Therapy
Coaching
Consultation
Couples Therapy
Group Therapy
Home-based Therapy
Workshops/Educating